Altar Call – Opelika-Auburn News
Walter Albritton
December 11, 2016
The
strange season of joy and sadness
Al
lived in Alaska. He was a good friend. His wife had died. Hoping my voice might
ease his loneliness, I called him one night.
We exchanged pleasantries for a few minutes, then he jarred me with the news
that he had been diagnosed with terminal cancer. I fought back tears as he
said, “I’m going home soon and I am ready to go. I’ll get to be with my wife
again and I am eager to see her.”
I
was speechless for several seconds. The silence was awkward. Finally, I stammered a reply, “My brother, I
wish I could be with you one more time – just to let you know how much your
friendship has meant to me.”
His voice was steady as he replied, “I would love to see you too. But if we
don’t see each other again down here, I’ll be waiting to see you in the
Father’s House.”
I
sat quietly after our conversation ended, asking God to bless my friend and
thanking God that I had called. I thought of earlier days, 40 years ago, when
our families shared a vacation together in the Boundary Waters of Minnesota
adjacent to the Canadian border. Our
children think it was the best vacation we ever had.
Young and vigorous then, we had life by the tail. Our days were filled with
laughter and enthusiasm. We shared stories of God’s redeeming grace and our dreams
for ourselves and our children.
Now we are old. We talk more of heaven than our dreams in these days of
transition, keenly aware that we are in the fourth quarter of life.
Does that mean we must live now under a cloud of sadness? No! A thousand times
No! We can still rejoice in the goodness of God. We can still live, laugh and
love. We can refuse to let sorrow steal our joy.
Though we are old, Christmas is still “the most
wonderful time of the year.” While sickness and pain never take a holiday, I
can still wear my “Joy to the world” face most of the time and refuse to allow
sadness to rule my day.
Cancer still shows its ugly face. People are dying. Funerals are being planned.
Nursing homes are filled with lonely people. Hospitals are crowded with hurting
people. The jails are full of people whose lives are being ruined by drugs,
crime and alcohol. But that is not the whole story!
Babies are being born. Some young people are
eagerly learning how to live as disciples of Jesus. Many young adults are
living a good life with gusto. Many in the prime of life are joyously honoring
Christ in noble ways. Churches will soon be crowded with people seeking peace
with God and praying for peace on earth. Many are looking for ways to bless
others in generous ways.
This is the nature of life – a mixture of
sadness and joy, good and evil, tough times and good times. Should we stop
celebrating because others are struggling with sorrow and sadness? By no means.
Never!
Happy people can care about those who are hurting – and offer tender, loving care.
Caring may be offered in a hundred different ways – a card or a call, a visit,
cookies or flowers, a warm smile or words of encouragement. Each of us can do
something!
As
we grow older our perspective is seasoned by loss and pain so that, hopefully,
we understand better than the young how to cope with sadness. And guess what? Caring for others is the seed from which
springs the flower of authentic joy. + +
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